A ConVentFul of FeaRs
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Well, finally it's high time i updated this almost lifeless blog of mine, save for the all-too-generous posting done by germaine. Thanks for fiddling while i was busy. Love ya lots. Anyways, today's events were very revealing of the platitude of fears people have about others.
At the very root of the problem is a habit to assume. The things we preconceive without proper justifications causes a lot of misunderstanbdings to occur; friends fall out, bosses fire employees, people having it out just because of illusions. Why do people assume? I have been struggling to answer this question for ages as i watch quarrels go by, heated exchanges run past and catfights galore too.
Misconception is a word many people would like to prevent yet they dabble in it unknowingly. They sit on their very high pedestal, preaching about the inadequacies of others, besmirching the reputations of lives be it purposely or otherwise. And eventually, people get hurt real bad.
I, for one, suggest people to consider both sides for any obstacle they encounter. Always try your best to hear either party's defence. Allow them to justify their actions, you may very well discover things may not be what it seems. Who knows, you may even prevent a squabble from taking place. Peace out.
